Love/Hate relationship with the computer

I have been trying for the last two hours to figure out how to transfer all of my music files from one computer to the other one, to no avail. Now I know I could burn all of the files and transfer them that way, but my drive won't let me. This is one of the reasons that I wanted to put my music on my other computer so that I could actually burn CDs. I love my ipods but they don't do to well at work. So now I am taking a break before I say to hell with it and break both computers. If anyone has any suggestions (not that anyone will ever read this) please let me know. ;)